Saturday, January 4, 2014

Relationship VS Money


                                                       RELATIONSHIP VS MONEY!

          It is said the love is all we need. While love is great it doesn't put food the the table and a roof over your head. When you are grown up money becomes very important in order to survive! We need money to enjoy our selves, pay the bills, pay for schooling, and pay for food. Money is a huge issue in relationship. In fact a lot of marriages end because of money issues. Some times couples don't agree on how they spend the money. Sometimes couples argue about how much money you spend or don't spend. Sometimes not having enough money can stress out a relationship.Here is a few tips on how to deal with finances in a relationship.


                   Love or money

        You may have a lot in common with your partner but the two of your aren't exactly they same. Your man mite want to buy a new truck but you want to save up money to buy a new house. You may not agree on everything and money is defiantly one issue you may not agree on! You may feel like you should have a joint account and your partner likes having separate accounts. You may feel like you should know how much money your partner makes and your partner may not want to share his bank amount with you. Not talking about money can be very frustrating. Sometimes your other half mite find something they really want to buy but you feel like it is way to much. This may cause tension in the bank and the relationship.


                                       


          Some people know the value of hard work and some people are born with a sliver spoon in their mouth. When these two people get into a relationship money will defiantly bring trouble. You know what hard work is so you save up your money. Your partner's money may burn a hole in their pockets! This is trouble! You can't spend and not save up for a rainy day. It is okay to treat yourself  once in a while but only if all the things that are need to be paid are. Your partner may want to go out all the time and you feel like staying in will save money. Your partner may not want to work and that puts all the pressure on you to pay the bills. Some girls believe a man should take then shopping, buy them everything they want, take them out every night, and to give them a weekly allowance. That doesn't pay the bills and that isn't very fair to the person who is working their butts off the get that money. If you want a man to pay for you then you may want to make an account on sugardaddy.com. A hardworking man just isn't for you



                              


          Living in today's world is very expensive! A lot of couples are living pay check to pay check these days. The more bills that come in means sometime you have to pick up extra shifts at your job or sometimes you'll even have to go out and find another job. You'll need one job to just pay the bill and another to put food on the table. Not to mention all the school and credit card debit you still have to pay off. It all just keeps adding up! Work all those jobs make you exhausted and leave you with no time for each other.

                  

          Your partner should love you for you not your money. If they thing you should do all the work and you take care of them then that's not a partnership. You're not their parent! In a relationship you need to take care of each other. A relationship is not one sided. I know money can be stressful  but it doesn't have to be an end to a relationship. First off you need to keep communication open about money. Talk about the bill, what you would like the buy, and what you need to cut down on. Talk about where the budget is at and where you want it to be. Try hard to help each other save up. Remember going out isn't a bad thing as long as other things are taken care of. Keep money positive and not a burden. Keep Living!Keep loving!




         

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